Blame is not for failure. Blame is for failure to help — or failure to ask for help.
– President of Lego Corporation (?), as told by the heavily French-accented Yves Morieux (TED Talks lecture)
While the above thought might not be the ultimate mantra for the church on earth, it surely would be helpful if Christians appropriated the second part in particular. The closer we are to one another, the more intimate and trustful our associations, the more likely we will ask for, and give, help.